He-Motional Baby Men in Relationships: What Happened to The Strong Silen...

This week's SUNDAY SERMON. This is another VIEWER PARTICIPATION show, so please come ready to call in and share your thoughts on these dudes and their outrageous behavior. 

IF YOU ARE TOO SHY to say what you want to say on audio (no video for callers on this show), you can submit your thoughts in advance by email to "survivingdating@gmail.com" and I will read all or part of it on air during the broadcast. Click link (graphic) to set a REMINDER so you don't miss it!

WTF!? TUESDAY DATING RELATIONSHIP ADVICE LIVESTREAM | 11-23-2021

On the show tonight we'll provide advice to women about stalking, cheating, when to break up, domestic violence, abusive relationships, men who won't take NO! for an answer, men who move in with women and act like she is their mother, and lots more! Show begins at 6:00 pm PST

WINNING@LIFE! 5th Annual Video-a-Day Theme for Debruary 2022

WINNING@LIFE! 5th Annual Video-a-Day Theme for Debruary 2022. Please SUBSCRIBE to THE DEBSTERISM CHANNEL so you don't miss out on even ONE of the exciting interviews and panel discussions on deck during the month of February 2022.

SUNK COST FALLACY IN RELATIONSHIPS: Women Throwing Good Time After Bad

Sunk Cost Fallacy relationships, where women throw good time after bad is a common behavior pattern. Sunk cost fallacy describes a tendency to continue forward in situations (here we reference relationships), where time, money or effort has already been invested, but the investor refuses to accept that they are wasting time and resources.

The Disturbing Epidemic of Black Male Violence Against Black Women and G...

Featured guest panelists: owner of the site Black Femicide and psychologist Dr. Oliver Williams. Please click link to set a Reminder. The show airs tomorrow (Sunday November 7) at 3:00 PM (PST) which is 6:00 PM (EST) or 5:00 PM (CST). Come with your questions, personal stories of male violence or intimate partner violence, or suggestions for change. A long-overdue discussion that will be extremely powerful as we delve into a deeply disturbing and growing trend.

WTF!? RELATIONSHIP TUESDAY DATING ADVICE LIVESTREAM |11-2-21

#HYPERGAMY IN #DATING #RELATIONSHIPS: When MEN Are #Hypergamous

Male #golddiggers and #gigolos up for discussion tonight. The goal of this live is to get women to understand, you don't have to be considered "rich" to be set up by a man looking for a come up. There are oh so many ways for you and your resources, energy, money, time, connections, credit, and influence can be tapped for his advantage. If you are useful to him, he will pretend to love you enough to get his hands on what you have. Join me as we discuss male #hypergamy. 

#HYPERGAMY IN #DATING #RELATIONSHIPS: When MEN Are #Hypergamous

Hypergamy in dating relationships has historically been the courting pattern for centuries. Beautiful women were married off to high value men "of means" who owned land, cattle, property, had royal titles, etc. The women were pushed by relatives and society to marry men who were "better off" than their families, both socially or economically. By leveling up or marrying up to a high value man, beautiful young women improved future prospects of their children as well as their siblings and parents. Women seeking hypergamous relationships was and remains a socially acceptable practice, where a woman's beauty and youth is traded for financial wealth and social status. Join us for an insightful discussion on Sunday, 10-17-21 at 3:00 PM (PST)

SUNK COST FALLACY RELATIONSHIPS: Women Throwing Good Time After Bad

Why do women spend more and more time, invest more and more of themselves and their resources, in a relationship where a man has already proven himself to be a dusty bum? Well, this behavior has a name! Sunk Cost Fallacy

WTF!? TUESDAY RELATIONSHIP ADVICE TUESDAY LIVESTREAM | 9-28-2021

It's time for WTF TUESDAY the livestream advice column! Show airs tonight starting at 6:00 PM (PST). Join us for the laughs, the shock, the WTF!? and the OMG! 

INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIPS: Pros, Cons Interracial Dating Black Women

Please join the group of panelists for an engaging discussion on the pros, cons, risks and benefits of interracial relationships for black women. 

DNN (ORIGINAL DUSTY NEWS NETWORK) Memes Posts & Comments of Dusties (8/2...

Show starts at 6:00 PM (PST) tonight! Come on by for some laughs.

DNN (ORIGINAL DUSTY NEWS NETWORK) Memes Posts & Comments of Dusties (8/2...

Here's a dose of reality for you! Every Friday from June-September the Debsterism Channel hosts THE DUSTY NEWS NETWORK. We closely examine memes, posts, texts and comments made by dusty men all over the web. If you are looking for some different Friday night #entertainment, roll through for this comedy livestream hosted by advice columnist Deborrah Cooper. We get started at 6:00PM (PST). Log on here: https://youtu.be/SNPZ-KuQYl4

TOXIC MASCULINITY - When Traditional Manly Traits Become Toxic

The very real differences between healthy wonderful masculinity, and male behaviors that are dangerous, poisonous and toxic to women, children, and smaller weaker men. 

How NOT to be a Silly Woman: Step 2 - Stop Embracing Toxic Dusty Men

Premiering at 4:30 PM today but if you miss it, catch the instant replay anytime that works for you. An important wake up call for women about their online activities and the men they spend time listening to. 

#DNN (ORIGINAL DUSTY NEWS NETWORK) Memes Posts & Comments of Dusties (7/...

The laughing starts at 6:00 PM on Friday 7/9 Join us!

#RELATIONSHIP #ADVICE TUESDAY! #Dating #Questions (7/6/21)

Submit YOUR question for an upcoming WTF!? TUESDAY RELATIONSHIP ADVICE SHOW at this link: http://survivingdating.com/give-me-a-shout/relationship-advice-question-submission-form

TEEN DATING: Are You Ready for the Responsibilities and Heartbreak?

Advice for teens interested in dating, their parents/grandparents/step-parents, and older teens who now realize they don't know what they SHOULD know to make smarter relationship decisions.

How do you know when your teen is ready to start dating? How are the signs that a relationship is hurting your child? How do you as a parental figure intervene to protect a child? What do teens need to know about dating, relationships, boundaries, and peer pressure to engage in more adult activities  before they go to high school or off to college?

These questions and many more answered in tonight's discussion. Submit YOUR question to be answered LIVE on the air to survivingdating@gmail.com - make the subject line TEEN DATING SHOW.

#DNN ORIGINAL #DUSTY NEWS NETWORK Dusty Memes Posts Comments (6/19/21)

Join me for the Saturday evening (switched from yesterday) dragging of dusty men and women! Lots of fun and eye opening analysis of what some of these memes and posts are REALLY going for. It's shocking. We get started at 6:00 PM #Juneteenth2021 

#ADVICE TUESDAY! #Funny #Livestream #Dating #Relationships (6/15/21)

On TONIGHT at 6:00 PM (West Coast time). Come through for the edumacation, the laughs, the OMG!, the WTF!?, and the reveal of the many many games men play on women. Listen and learn! 

#ADVICE TUESDAY! #Dating #Relationship #Love #Questions (5/25/21)

Join the fun tonight at 6:00 PM (PST). Great time in the chat while you learn and laugh at the crazy advice given. 

How NOT to be a Silly Woman: Step 1 - Avoid Choosing the Wrong Man

The most important decision you will make in life is your choice of partner. You can either experience the most joy you've ever felt, or you can be dragged into the depths of despair. This is the first of a 12 video series on DEB'S 12 STEP PROGRAM TO NOT BE A STUPID WOMAN. 

#ADVICE WEDNESDAY #Dating #Relationship #Love #Q&A (5/12/21)

On LIVE Wednesday 5/12 starting at 6:00PM (PST) Come on through!

FLUMMOXED FRIDAY! #Livestream #Dating #Relationship #Advice (5/7/21)

It's on tonight and you are invited to listen in! We get started at 6:00 PM (PST) which is affectionately known as "Dust o'clock". Dusty men, dusty women, and dusty relationships full of drama, lies, cheating, mental illness, dysfunction, and general cray. Listen to it all and my sage advice. Makes you wonder how folks of all ages and from all over the world get themselves into these messy situations and why they stay in them. Lots of fun in the chat as well. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9qpal7tjnPI

FLUMMOXED FRIDAY! #Livestream #Dating #Relationship #Love #Q&A (4/30/21)

FLUMMOXED FRIDAY! #Livestream #Dating #Relationship #Advice (4/23/21)

FLUMMOXED FRIDAY! #Livestream #Dating #Relationship #Advice (4/23/21)

#RELATIONSHIP #ADVICE TUESDAY #Dating #Q&A (4/20/21)

#RELATIONSHIP #ADVICE TUESDAY #Dating #Q&A (4/20/21) Enjoying your 4/20? Roll on through and enjoy the giggles with us tonight. The eye bucking, face palm slapping, wide open mouth shocking hot messes that people get themselves into and need advice about. At least 22 letters per show. We get started at 6:00 PM (PST).  

#NARCISSISTIC #RELATIONSHIPS: Broken Men Who Demand Your Time & Energy

#Narcissistic relationships are the worst. These guys are really out here pushing for Black women to serve them like we are slaves or something. 

FLUMMOXED FRIDAY! #Dating #Relationship #Advice #Questions (3/26/21)

First broadcast of the new Friday night relationship and dating advice shows. We get started at 6:00 PM (PST) with 20+ viewer submitted questions on their relationships. Come through and join the fun! 

#ADVICE TUESDAY - #Dating #Relationships #Love #Q&A (3/23/21)

The REALEST relationship advice you've ever heard. None of that gentle kind sensitive stuff - this advice is hard core, no nonsense, get your shyt together advice that you NEED so you make better choices in the future. The show airs LIVE every Tuesday evening at 6:00 PM (PST). Join the fun and hear the cray at www.youtube.com/debsterism.  BECOME A SUBSCRIBER while you're at it! 

WTF? TUESDAY! #Dating #Relationship #Advice Livestream #Q&A (2/23/21)

#KARENS #KARENING: Entitled White Female Karens Get a Reality Check

If you do Karen things that means you are a Karen. So don't get mad. 

#Relationship #Advice #Commitment #Dating #Q&A | $5 Per Question - Debru...

Come on through with your $5 superchat or $cashapp contribution and get your SHORT AND SUCCINCT relationship advice question answered right on the spot.

MINDFULNESS AND SELF-LOVE with Wendi Dumboff | Debruary 2021

Do you live mindfully and in the moment with clarity, or do you must drift through life like a tumbleweed in the wind? Our guest tonight discusses mindfulness and meditation for women in the pursuit of self-love. 

#RELATIONSHIPS #MEN: Baby Mommas and Other #Women Not at Your Level

What is going on in the mind of a high earning, educated man who is bitter and angry that a baby momma with a GED prefers to date "thugs" to him "a good black man?" Shouldn't he be looking at women more on his level?

ELIMINATE STRUGGLE DRAMA Blocks to Healthy Relationships with David Esse...

#selfdevelopement #relationshipskills #situationships #relationships #love #datingadvice #vetting

SUNDAY SERMON: Battle of the Sexes is Women's Fault says Suzanne Venker

This week's #Sunday #Sermon addresses the  writings of conservative  Suzanne Venker, and the anti-feminist beliefs espoused in her controversial article "The War on Men."  This article first appeared as a post on the Fox News website in 2012 and set off an avalanche of heated discussions all over the internet and media.  

Venker's subsequent writings continue to slam feminism as being the anti-Christ of American culture, marriage and family, and blames women and their desire for equality and independence as the chief reason men today don't want to get married. 

Her posts and articles include titles tasty such as:

• Why Women Need Husbands
• Never Marry a Feminist
• Why Super Successful Women Struggle in Love
• American Women Need to Shift Their Priorities if They Want to Be Happy
• Why Women Should Marry Earlier Rather Than Later
• College Women, Take Heed: Prioritize Marriage and Family!

We will discuss what her opinions mean for young women of marriageable age, what they mean for men, and the stark difference between the marriages and prospects for Black women compared to Asian, Latino and White women in the United States. The show starts at 2:00 PM (PST)

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WTF? TUESDAY! #Dating #Relationship #Advice #Questions (1/5/21)