Guys give lots of reasons to justify their untrue statements of love, though
none of them are honorable or make a bit of sense to women. Check out this list of lame excuses:
- Because that's what they want to hear before they'll have sex or do what I want!
- Becasue she kept saying it to me and waiting for me to say it back. I felt pressured!
- I just said it so she would finally stop asking me if I loved her or not!
- Isn't that what I am supposed to say after we've been going out for a month?
- She was going to break up with me and go out with another guy that she said loved her, and I didn't want her to leave me!
- What can I say... I meant it at that moment!
Likewise, if you've been dating a few months and you still don't feel a growing attachment, deep affection and a desire to be around her enough to let things develop to the "love" level, break it off. Stop wasting your time and hers. Let her go to find a man that can truly love her the way she deserves to be loved.
And ladies, take a good look at the list above and use it to protect yourself. There are guys out there that WILL use your emotional openness and desire for love against you when it suits their purposes.
You must keep your head on your shoulders and remember that a man's love is demonstrated in ACTION, not just words. In other words, if you have a guy that says he loves you all the time, but his actions are hurtful or confusing and make you cry, you would do best to believe what your eyes are telling you and not what you hear.
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